As I walk past individuals today, those who have adopted the name "Christian" really don't know who they are in the kingdom. We who are kingdom citizens, new creatures born under a New Covenant between God and man, are supposed to be living in chapter 2 of the Constitution in the book of Genesis. What do I mean by this? Well, the original relationship has been initiated. We have been adopted into the family of God. Fellowship has been restored between God and man, between man and woman, and among mankind through the unity of the Holy Spirit. Now I want to remind you, that the only individuals God puts together are two individuals who have the Holy Spirit within them. Everyone else man marries. Read what the King stated: "So then they are no longer two but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let no man separate".
There are many non-believers of the King's Word that attend church to get married "before God", and they go through a ceremony and through rituals. But the building is not where God lives. His "building" today is the Church, meaning you and me. His born again children are the temples of God. So being married in a church building does not mean God has put that man or woman together. If you really believe that God put you and your spouse together, then you have no right to go to a lawyer. If you truly believe that you "married in the Lord", then you should have no problem going back to the preacher who married you, to get a divorce. The Word is tight, but it's right. Now, try saying to him, as God's representative, "We want to get a divorce" and see what happens. As soon as you hit the church door, if not before, the Holy Spirit is going to say "Judge not and you shall not be judged. Condemn not and you shall not be condemned. Forgive and you will be forgiven". Now where to you stand in God's Word?
Matthew 19:6 Luke 6:37