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      • How Did We Lose the Gospel of the Kingdom? Pt 1 >
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    • The Government of Man Vs the Kingdom of God Pt 1 >
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    • Condemning is Not Our Responsibility >
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    • Believers Who Are Blinded, Distracted and Deceived >
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    • Kingdom 101: You Must First Be Reborn
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    • Kingdom 101: Down Through Time >
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    • Kingdom 101: God's Idea of Colonization
    • Kingdom 101: What is Dominion?
    • Kingdom 101: The Spirit of Dominion Part 1 >
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    • Kingdom 101: Let Them Have Dominion
    • Kingdom 101: Disobedience Is an Act of Treason
    • Kingdom 101: The Lord God Promised a Kingdom
    • Kingdom 101: His Intent of the Original Kingdom
    • Kingdom 101: He Restored What Man Lost
    • Kingdom 101: We Are Sons Not Servants
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    • Kingdom 101: Your Relationship or Your Religion
    • Kingdom 101: He Rules the Visible World From the Invisible Realm
    • Kingdom 101: He is the King of the Invisible and Visible Worlds
    • Kingdom 101: You--Mankind--Were Created to Rule
    • Kingdom 101: Kingdom of Kings >
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    • Kingdom 101: The Lord God's Contract with Man
    • Kingdom 101: Born to Rule, Not to be Ruled or Controlled
    • Kingdom 101: Man Shall Manage Earth, It's the King's Law >
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    • Kingdom 101: The Lord God Requires a Body
    • Kingdom 101: Building a Kingdom Mentality
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    • Kingdom 101: Rulers Become the Ruled
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    • Kingdom 101: A Complete Change of Mentality
    • Kingdom 101: Making Preparations for the King >
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    • Kingdom 101: The Image of a King
  • Kingdom 101: King and Kingdom
    • Kingdom 101: The Essence of a Kingdom and Its King
    • Kingdom 101: A World Just for You
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  • Kingdom 102: The Kingdom of God is Relevant
    • Kingdom 102: How Do You Enter? >
      • Kingdom 102: Honoring His Son in the Kingdom
    • Kingdom 102: Applying the Kingdom
    • Kingdom 102: A Kingdom Focus on the Beatitudes
    • Kingdom 102: Staying Focused on His Word in Time of Conflict
    • Kingdom 102: Principles of the Kingdom
    • Kingdom 102: The Invasion From Heaven >
      • Kingdom 102: The Divine Confrontation
    • Kingdom 102: Violence and the Kingdom
    • Kingdom 102: Setting Priorities While Living in Two Kingdoms >
      • Kingdom 102: A Clash of Cultures
      • Kingdom 102: Characteristic of Kingdom Culture
      • Kingdom 102: Citizens Represent Their Kingdom and Culture
    • Kingdom 102: Kingdom Government Principles >
      • Kingdom 102: The Kingdom Government and the Republic
      • Kingdom 102: Carrying Out the King's Policies and Principles
      • Kingdom 102: Fusing a Kingdom With a Democracy
    • Kingdom 102: Mankind's Knowledge
    • Kingdom 102: Information: Knowledge From the King >
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    • Kingdom 102: Kingdoms and Their Battles
    • Kingdom 102: Knowledge, the Key >
      • Kingdom 102: Knowledge is Very Important
    • Kingdom 102: Seek the Kingdom, Encourage One Another >
      • Kingdom 102: Seek the Kingdom, A Divine Command
    • Kingdom 102: Light in Dark Places >
      • Kingdom 102: Kingdom of Light or Darkness?
      • Kingdom 102: Where Are the Ambassadors? >
        • Kingdom 102: The Power of an Ambassador >
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        • Kingdom 102: Surrendering Our Heavenly Passport
        • Kingdom 102: A Break in Diplomatic Relations
      • Kingdom 102: We Are Prisoners In a Foreign Land >
        • Kingdom 102: Mankind's Full Pardon
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        • Kingdom 102: The Kingdom and His Birth
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        • Kingdom 102: Purpose >
          • Kingdom 102: His Original Mission and Purpose
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      • Kingdom 102: His Assignment, Preach the Kingdom >
        • Kingdom 102: Preach and Teach the Gospel of the Kingdom
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      • Kingdom 102: Preparation for the Counselor (Holy Spirit) >
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      • Kingdom 102: A New Order is Here, in the Last Stage >
        • Kingdom 102: The New World Order
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      • Kingdom 102: The Final Process: Becoming One With the Holy Spirit
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  • Kingdom 102: Knowing How to Apply the Kingdom Concept
  • Kingdom 103: Believe in Me
    • Kingdom 103: The King's Viewpoint of Giving
    • Kingdom 103: If You Can Believe in Him
    • Kingdom 103: Trusting in Mankind While Believing in God's Word? >
      • Kingdom 103: Your Faith is Essential in the Kingdom
    • Kingdom 103: The Division of Mankind
    • Kingdom 103: They Praise Him, But Fail to Obey Him >
      • Kingdom 103: The King's Will and the King's Word
    • Kingdom 103: Know Your Purpose While on This Earth >
      • Kingdom 103: Your Goals, His Purpose...and Then What?
  • Kingdom 103: He Needs No Assistance in Keeping His Promise
    • Kingdom 103: Honoring the Father Through the Son
    • Kingdom 103: Standing on His Promises >
      • Kingdom 103: Spreading Your Culture >
        • Kingdom 103: Living in the Kingdom Culture
    • Kingdom 103: Power and Authority in His Name
    • Kingdom 103: Many Little Kingdoms, But Only One is True
    • Kingdom 103: What Does it Mean to Lead? >
      • Kingdom 103: Kingdom Citizens Are Examples
    • Kingdom 103: Persistent and Consistent!
    • Kingdom 103: Student or Disciple of the Kingdom? >
      • Kingdom 103: Student or Disciple of the Kingdom? Pt 2
      • Kingdom 103: Student or Disciple of the Kingdom? Pt 3
    • Kingdom 103: Dare To Be Obedient
    • Kingdom 103: On What Foundation Does Your Faith Stand?
    • Kingdom 103: The Kingdom Mindset of Authority
  • Kingdom 103: Seven Last Days Churches and Their Believers' Characteristics
    • Kingdom 103: Ephesus, Its Believers' Characteristics >
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    • Kingdom 103: Smyrna, Its Believers' Characteristics
    • Kingdom 103: Pergamos, The Compromising Church
    • Kingdom 103: Thyatira, Its Believers' Characteristics >
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    • Kingdom 103: Sardis, Its Believers' Characteristics
    • Kingdom 103: Philadelphia, Its Believers' Characteristics >
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    • Kingdom 103: Laodicea, The Lukewarm Church
  • Kingdom 103: Reconsidering the End Times
    • Kingdom 103: When Will the End Come?
    • Kingdom 103: He Came Under the Cloak of Darkness
    • Kingdom 103: Authorized Power for the Heavenly Government
    • Kingdom 103: Never Assume in Marriage Pt 1 >
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      • Kingdom 103: Love in Marriage Needs to be Refreshed
    • Kingdom 103: Fatherlessness, the Source of Disobedience and Sin
    • Kingdom 103: Simple Made Complicated >
      • Kingdom 103: The Simplicity of the Kingdom Gospel
    • Kingdom 103: Life Beyond the Door >
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      • Kingdom 103: What Gospel Are You Preaching? >
        • Kingdom 103: What Gospel Are You Preaching? Pt 2
      • Kingdom 103: He is Alive and Well
    • Kingdom 103: The Unchanging Person and the Unshakable Kingdom >
      • Kingdom 103: Who or What is Your god?
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        • Kingdom 103: Staying Focused on Your Purpose Pt 1 >
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    • Kingdom 103: Singleness, Divorce and the Results Pt 1 >
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      • Kingdom 103: Singleness From God's Viewpoint
      • Kingdom 103: God Presents, You Choose
    • Kingdom 103: Forgiveness, Always a Priority
    • Kingdom 103: Kingdom Principles Are Relevant to Our Way of Life
    • Kingdom 103: Religion and the Kingdom
    • Kingdom 103: The House Where God Lives
    • Kingdom 103: The Indwelling of His Spirit (the Governor)
    • Kingdom 103: In the Kingdom, They are Filled with His Spirit >
      • Kingdom 103: Who Is the Holy Spirit?
      • Kingdom 103: The Holy Spirit is for All Humanity >
        • Kingdom 103: Return Of the Governor
        • Kingdom 103: Leaning On the Governor
        • Kingdom 103: Where Does the Governor Reside?
        • Kingdom 103: The Governor is Meant For All
        • Kingdom 103: The Holy Spirit is Your Guide and Teacher
        • Kingdom 103: Your Legacy and the Kingdom
  • Kingdom 104: Misrepresenting the Kingdom Gospel Pt 1
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      • Kingdom 104: The Misrepresentation of the Kingdom
      • Kingdom 104: Earthly Holidays Misrepresent the Kingdom
      • Kingdom 104: Being Misrepresented
    • Kingdom 104: His Name is All Authority and Power >
      • Kingdom 104: His Law, the Source of All His Principles and Truth
    • Kingdom 104: Failing to Know Your Kingdom Assignment Brings Boredom
    • Kingdom 104: The Purpose of the Sabbath--Rest and Teach >
      • Kingdom 104: The Sabbath or Seventh Day God's Way >
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    • Kingdom 104: Living in the Kingdom Culture >
      • Kingdom 104: Your Eternal Foundation Will Sustain You
    • Kingdom 104: The Diluting of the Kingdom Message
    • Kingdom 104: Detoxing Your Mind
    • Kingdom 104: Being Deceived From Your True Identity Pt 1 >
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      • Kingdom 104: Being Deceived Without a Solid Foundation
    • Kingdom 104: What Profit Has Righteousness in the Kingdom? Pt 1 >
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    • Kingdom 104: Christianity Misrepresents the Kingdom Pt 1 >
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    • Kingdom 104: A Focused Representative of the Kingdom
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      • Kingdom 104: Where Are the Masculine-Thinking Men? Ch 1 pt 3
    • Kingdom 104: Masculine-Minded Men of the Kingdom Government Pt 1 >
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    • Kingdom 104: The Benefits of Understanding the Simplicity of the Kingdom
    • Kingdom 104: The Benefits of Discernment
    • Kingdom 104: Is it Lust not Love?
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    • The Kingdom Is the Crux of the Problem Pt 1
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    • The Sons of the Kingdom of God
    • The Same Kingdom Message
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    • The Source of Your Foundation for Life
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    • Reminiscing Through History
    • Facing Life Successfully and Effectively Pt 1 >
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    • The Power of Motive and Faith in God's Word
    • Your Faith in Jesus the Christ: the Work of God >
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    • The Challenges of Your Faith In God's Written Word
  • Marriage
    • Kingdom Principles of Marriage
    • Marriage is Still God's Idea
    • Is Sex the Primary Purpose for Marriage?
    • God Created Marriage as a Foundational Institution
    • The Misconception of Marriage
    • Populating the Earth Wasn't the Primary Purpose of Marriage
    • Marriage--When Two Histories Collide
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      • Citizenship Pt 3-The Concept of Dual Citizenship
      • Citizenship Pt 4: The Invisible Citizenship
    • Colonization: The Concept >
      • The Colonial Intent of God
    • The Government of God and Democracy >
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    • The Kingdom Versus the Government of Man >
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    • The Good News Is the Kingdom
    • The Origin and Purpose For Man
    • The Birth of the Kingdom, The Spirit of Dominion >
      • A Promised Kingdom
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        • Standards of a Great Mentor
    • Ruling the Visible World From the Invisible Realm >
      • We Were Born to Rule, But Not Over Each Other
    • A Kingdom of Kings >
      • The Image of a King
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      • Servant to the King of Kings
    • What Question Fits Your Crisis?
    • Rediscovering the Kingdom Concept
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    • The Restoring of Our Place in God's Plan
    • We Are Citizens of a New Order
    • The Kingdom--Preached In Word, Demonstrated In Power
    • The Indwelling Force
    • The Divine Confrontation
  • We Are Heaven's Ambassadors on Earth
    • The Characteristics of an Ambassador
    • The Ambassador's Power and Authority
    • Our Position as Ambassadors
    • Representing the King as Ambassadors
    • King's Policies Should be Carried Out
    • Breaking Diplomatic Relations
    • Surrendering Your Heavenly Passport
  • What Is Culture?
    • Understanding Principles of Kingdom Culture
    • Understanding the Kingdom Concept of Culture Pt 1 >
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      • Understanding the Kingdom Concept of Culture Pt 3
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      • Culture and Its Many Manifestations Part 3
      • Culture and Its Many Manifestations Part 4
    • The Kingdom: Social and Economic Differences
    • Kingdom Culture vs The Culture of Christianity
    • Faith in the Kingdom Culture
    • There Are Three Basic Needs of Mankind
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    • The Three Keys for Kingdom Success
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Marriage--When Two Histories Collide

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A person standing alone can be attacked and defeated, but two can stand back-to-back and conquer. Three are even better, for a triple-braided cord is not easily broken. Ecclesiastes 4:12 NLT This is the posture and stance of a marriage that will withstand the storms of life!

​We wrote the article below early in our marriage. This month we celebrate our 10th wedding anniversary, so I felt led to update and add to it! The original article is complete below the update and still stands true for us. 

​When we think of love and marriage, certain scriptures come to mind:  I Corinthians 13 and Ephesians 5 are two of the most well known. They speak of love, honor, respect and obedience. In 1 Corinthians 13, the "love chapter", it says Love is patient and kind. Love is not jealous or boastful or proud or rude. It does not demand its own way. It is not irritable, and it keeps no record of being wronged. It does not rejoice about injustice but rejoices whenever the truth wins out. Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance. 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 NLT 

But further down, the 11th verse should also be considered when talking about marriage:  When I was a child, I spoke and thought and reasoned as a child. But when I grew up, I put away childish things. Yes, when you marry, you should be ready to put away childish things. That doesn't mean you stop having fun, only that it is no longer "all about you". When you marry, it becomes "us against the world". Nothing should ever come between you and no one but God is more important. When my sons married, I knew that I could no longer be #1 in their lives. Their focus and top loyalty would be to their wife, and I told them that. I had seen too many young marriages floundering because she was still "daddy's girl" or he was still "mommy's boy"! The parent/child relationship must change. We still love each other and are there for each other, but priorities shift. Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and they shall become one flesh. Genesis 2:24 NKJV 


Heartfelt suggestions:

  • Don't sweat the small stuff. It is usually the little annoyances that cause the biggest arguments. Recognize those "little things" they "always" do and determine to accept them and not allow it to build up to the point of exploding. Make allowance for each other’s faults, and forgive anyone who offends you. Remember, the Lord forgave you, so you must forgive others. Above all, clothe yourselves with love, which binds us all together in perfect harmony. And let the peace that comes from Christ rule in your hearts. For as members of one body you are called to live in peace. And always be thankful. Colossians 3:13-15 NLT
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  • Accept that you may enjoy different things. Being married doesn't mean you have to like all the same things. I don't like football; my husband doesn't like rock music. You adapt, adjust but don't try to turn them into you. Those differences can be endearing!  Love each other with genuine affection, and take delight in honoring each other. Romans 12:10 NT 
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  • Be aware that "familiarity breeds contempt". Being together daily, living with life's challenges, can bring negative attitudes. We begin to see the clothes on the floor or dishes in the sink or hair products all over the counter rather than the person you fell in love with. In those moments, remind yourself of that person. Even Jesus dealt with that familiarity. Jesus left that part of the country and returned with His disciples to Nazareth, His hometown. The next Sabbath He began teaching in the synagogue, and many who heard Him were amazed. They asked, “Where did He get all this wisdom and the power to perform such miracles?” Then they scoffed, “He’s just a carpenter, the son of Mary and the brother of James, Joseph, Judas, and Simon. And His sisters live right here among us.” They were deeply offended and refused to believe in Him.

    Then Jesus told them, “A prophet is honored everywhere except in his own hometown and among his relatives and his own family.” And because of their unbelief, He couldn’t do any miracles among them except to place His hands on a few sick people and heal them. And He was amazed at their unbelief.
    Mark 6:1-6 NLT
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  • Guard your spouse's reputation. Keep private things private and never tell secrets or share things you know your spouse wouldn't want told. Marriage is a sacred covenant between you, your spouse and God. No one else should ever be placed "in the mix". Too many people have destroyed their own marriage with their tongue. Don't run to mamma, daddy or any other sympathetic ear when you've had a fight! The tongue can bring death or life; those who love to talk will reap the consequences. Proverbs 18:21 NLT  
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  • Cultivate a Kingdom marriage by the leading of the Holy Spirit, our Governor in the Kingdom. A Kingdom marriage is built on the solid foundation of God's Word. You may read books and attend conferences and have counseling sessions but if the foundation of your marriage is not the Word of God it won't be a Kingdom marriage. A Kingdom marriage will be filled with the fruits of the Spirit; it will reflect our King, Jesus. But the Holy Spirit produces this kind of fruit in our lives: love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. There is no law against these things! Galatians 5:22-23 NLT   So I say, let the Holy Spirit guide your lives. Then you won’t be doing what your sinful nature craves. The sinful nature wants to do evil, which is just the opposite of what the Spirit wants. And the Spirit gives us desires that are the opposite of what the sinful nature desires. These two forces are constantly fighting each other, so you are not free to carry out your good intentions. Galatians 5:16-17 NLT 
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  • Your marriage, your home will be a place of peace and unity, with the Holy Spirit binding you and your spouse together in a Godly covenant relationship. There are so many scriptures that give us guidance in our marriages that don't specifically address marriage. Study them and become the spouse your spouse deserves. Make me truly happy by agreeing wholeheartedly with each other, loving one another, and working together with one mind and purpose. Don’t be selfish; don’t try to impress others. Be humble, thinking of others as better than yourselves. Don’t look out only for your own interests, but take an interest in others, too. You must have the same attitude that Christ Jesus had. Philippians 2:2-5 NLT  Be happy with those who are happy, and weep with those who weep. Live in harmony with each other. Don’t be too proud to enjoy the company of ordinary people. And don’t think you know it all!  Never pay back evil with more evil. Do things in such a way that everyone can see you are honorable. Do all that you can to live in peace with everyone. Romans 12:15-18 NLT In the same way, you husbands must give honor to your wives. Treat your wife with understanding as you live together. She may be weaker than you are, but she is your equal partner in God’s gift of new life. Treat her as you should so your prayers will not be hindered. Finally, all of you should be of one mind. Sympathize with each other. Love each other as brothers and sisters. Be tenderhearted, and keep a humble attitude. Don’t repay evil for evil. Don’t retaliate with insults when people insult you. Instead, pay them back with a blessing. That is what God has called you to do, and He will grant you His blessing. 1 Peter 3:7-9 NLT 

  • I believe success in marriage comes down to this one thing. . . Will you be selfish or selfless in your marriage? If you are wise and understand God’s ways, prove it by living an honorable life, doing good works with the humility that comes from wisdom. But if you are bitterly jealous and there is selfish ambition in your heart, don’t cover up the truth with boasting and lying. For jealousy and selfishness are not God’s kind of wisdom. Such things are earthly, unspiritual, and demonic. For wherever there is jealousy and selfish ambition, there you will find disorder and evil of every kind. James 3:13-16 NLT

Get into God's Word and seek out scriptures that will build up and strengthen your marriage relationship. When you each care more about the other's comfort, joy and peace than your own, you are on solid ground.

Stand strong on God's Word,

D. Arlene Luchie


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Now keep this in mind, marriage is never just two individuals coming together. Marriage is two histories colliding.  It is a clash of cultures, experiences, memories, hurts and habits.  Marriage is the fusing together of two histories to make one culture..."Kingdom Culture".

Focus Point:  Keep in mind: building a strong marriage takes time, patience and hard work.  I wasn't taught this when I was younger, so I made several poor choices and many mistakes before I came into the knowledge of the truth.  But I learned that one of the hardest adjustments anyone faces is moving from the single life to the married life.  Remember, people do not change overnight.  Some take longer than others.  When you marry someone, you marry more than that person.  In some cases, you "marry" an entire family, a complete history of experiences.  This is why you should take all the time you need to get to know the person you have been contemplating marrying. Remember, it is two histories coming together.  This is why it is hard at first to understand this person who is now sharing your house and your bed.  For those who have been married before, it is even harder, because you and the other individual are bringing old hurts and bad experiences.

Focus Point:  Both of you bring into your marriage many years of experiences which include hurts, joy, pre-conceived ideas of what a marriage is, and plenty of memories. They reflect and color how you see and respond to the world in general and specifically your spouse. Different viewpoints are one of the biggest sources of stress and conflict in young marriages.  By the way, it is worse with those who have been married more than once.

Focus Point:  (personal example):  In my marriage to my wife Arlene I realized that I had to make some quick adjustments because of our experiences with other people.  I must say this, it was much easier for me because I was determined to live by the Word of God.  I am committed to my marriage and the obedience of His will and purpose for my life.

Please note:  Adjusting to these differences is critical to your marital survival.  It is unfortunate, that many marriages fail on precisely this point. 

Focus Point:  Here is something from the Constitution, men and husbands, that will help a great deal to stay committed and thrive in your marriage:  

Constitutional Scriptures:

I Peter 3:7 Husbands, likewise, dwell with them with understanding, giving honor to the wife, as to the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life, that your prayers may not be hindered.

Proverbs 1:5  A wise man will hear and increase learning, And a man of understanding will attain wise counsel

Proverbs 4:7  Wisdom is the principal thing; therefore get wisdom. And in all your getting, get understanding.


Focus Point:  Keep in mind,  When two individuals come together, there must be a fusing into one culture, and that culture must be the "Kingdom Culture". Only then will they truly be one.

W.R. Luchie
www.kingdomcitizens.org

All scriptures are New King James translation except where noted.

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