My question to you is this: In what percentage are you operating in your marriage? We have been taught that marriage is a 50-50 proposition, which is a doctrine from the pit of hell. If you view marriage in that light, it is no wonder when you have a problem in your marriage. My wife Arlene and I operate and function at 100% in every facet of our marriage and our lives. We share everything and I mean everything. We realize oneness and togetherness is very important in order for us to be effective in this life. If marriage is 50-50, each individual is only half a person. Marriage is like an omelet made from two good whole eggs, not two half eggs. Remember King Jesus prayed to the Father that His disciples would become one. Now I am no longer in the world, but these are in the world, and I come to You. Holy Father, keep through Your name those whom You have given Me, that they may be one as We are. Then He prayed for us in the future that we would become one (meaning 100% complete). “I do not pray for these alone, but also for those who will believe in Me through their word; that they all may be one, as You, Father, are in Me, and I in You; that they also may be one in Us, that the world may believe that You sent Me. And the glory which You gave Me I have given them, that they may be one just as We are one" This only happens through the Holy Spirit and embracing a Kingdom concept (not a religious concept) If you have a 50-50 marriage, then you have two individuals, each half-whole. Then we have a problem. They spend the rest of their lives together trying to steal from each other what is needed for wholeness, uniqueness, personality; things that make the other special.
In other words, in that kind of marriage, one or both partners are empty. Remember, Adam was totally whole and complete. Eve was totally whole and complete. When the Lord God stated that Eve was suitable for Adam, He meant she was fit or adapted to him. She was his equal. In most marriages today, both parties spend years trying to change the other into a clone of themselves or to fit the image they have in their minds of what a husband or wife should be. I am quite aware of this, because I have been there and done that in my past life. Now I can state that I am one hundred percent me. My wife Arlene is one hundred percent herself. We are both filled with the Spirit of the King (the Holy Spirit). I don't need her to make me whole and she does not need me to make her whole.
When Arlene and I met, she was ready to assist me, because I had a purpose and a vision. Now we are growing in our vision and our purpose. May the Lord God bring into your spirit the Knowledge that all you need to stop being alone is another human being, not a husband or wife.
Keep in mind, Arlene and I both have been married and divorced and remarried. But, keep in mind, the Lord God changes people's lives and puts them together again. We are a living testament of His restoration. So be encouraged.
John 17:11 John 17:21-22
~~W.R. Luchie
In other words, in that kind of marriage, one or both partners are empty. Remember, Adam was totally whole and complete. Eve was totally whole and complete. When the Lord God stated that Eve was suitable for Adam, He meant she was fit or adapted to him. She was his equal. In most marriages today, both parties spend years trying to change the other into a clone of themselves or to fit the image they have in their minds of what a husband or wife should be. I am quite aware of this, because I have been there and done that in my past life. Now I can state that I am one hundred percent me. My wife Arlene is one hundred percent herself. We are both filled with the Spirit of the King (the Holy Spirit). I don't need her to make me whole and she does not need me to make her whole.
When Arlene and I met, she was ready to assist me, because I had a purpose and a vision. Now we are growing in our vision and our purpose. May the Lord God bring into your spirit the Knowledge that all you need to stop being alone is another human being, not a husband or wife.
Keep in mind, Arlene and I both have been married and divorced and remarried. But, keep in mind, the Lord God changes people's lives and puts them together again. We are a living testament of His restoration. So be encouraged.
John 17:11 John 17:21-22
~~W.R. Luchie
